Author Archives: Vinita Zutshi
Letting Your Child Make You Happy, and Other Such Ideas
Some widely-accepted strategies to manage conflict are: 1. Separate the wrongdoer from the wrong. 2. Don’t accuse the person. 3. Talk about how the wrong action / words make you feel. Okay, let’s dive in. Your child is pushing your … Continue reading
The Power of an Idea
Ideas are powerful. Saints, intellectuals, thinkers, philosophers, scientists, litterateurs – in short, achievers from all walks of life extol the virtue and power of an idea. Who am I to disagree with them? I, too, believe in the power of … Continue reading
Are You KISSing Your Child Enough?
KISS = Keep It Short and Simple As an adult, you know the value of preparation. Whether it is an exam, a presentation, a job interview, a new project, an athletic endeavor – whatever you want to do, it will … Continue reading
Where are YOU in Your Priority List?
You are a loving parent. You may not be the perfect parent you want to be, but you’re certainly trying your best. At least, you think so. I disagree. You are busting a gut trying to set a good example … Continue reading
When the Boredom Bug Bites
You are a busy person. You have multiple responsibilities and obligations. There are many days when you feel you haven’t had a moment to yourself. But finally, you have some leisure. Ah! What do you do with your leisure time? … Continue reading
The Two Words Every Parent Dreads Hearing
I guess “I’m pregnant” (at the wrong time) would top the Dreaded Words’ List, but given their frequency and sustained onslaught throughout childhood and teenage, “I’m bored” wins hands down as the words that make you go “Not again!” as … Continue reading
You Mean You Don’t Want to Save Lives?
I was at my daughter’s school for an event. The school was plastered with posters encouraging parents to participate in a blood donation camp being held at the same time. As I was leaving the school, a student hailed me. … Continue reading
Introducing the Best Parent in the World: Part 2
You are the world’s best parent – for your child. At the beginning of your parenthood, you’ve got your attitudes and your thoughts sorted out. You’re supportive and encouraging, and as your son keeps asking questions, you experience delight in … Continue reading
Introducing the Best Parent in the World: Part 1
Since I’m introducing the best parent in the world, it will take a bit of time, so this is Part 1 of the Introduction. Part 2 will appear tomorrow. Today, I’d like to introduce you to the best parent in … Continue reading
Are You Killing Your Child with Carrots?
Many children in the world are brought up without praise. This is sad, to say the least, and has terrible consequences for their self-esteem, behavior, and the quality of their lives as children. And as adults. Obviously, it also affects … Continue reading