Category Archives: Attitude
Who’s Spoiling Your Child?
If I asked you for a quotation using the word ‘spoil’, I’m sure almost all of you would come back with: “Spare the rod and spoil the child.” We’ve got over our fixation with physical punishment of all kinds (we’re … Continue reading
The Book: Have Happier Children – in 7 Days or Less!
It’s finally here! Now, you can turn around your day-to-day experiences with your child – from surly to excited, from listless to energetic, from moody to even-tempered. With the e-book Have Happier Children – in 7 Days or Less!, you have … Continue reading
What Kind of Parent Are You?
If someone were to ask parents this question, they’d get a range of answers: “I’m a strict parent.” “I’m easy-going.” “I’m more of a friend than a parent to my children.” “I just leave them alone unless they are wildly … Continue reading
What I Would Tell My Child if I Could Only Say One Thing
In an earlier post, I had posed the question: “What would you tell your child if you could only say one thing?” Only one reader posted a response: “Let your inner voice be your guide. I love you.” Thank you … Continue reading
I Have Become an I-Don’t-Know Parent
“Dad! I can ride a bicycle on my own! Look! Look!” Your daughter is screaming, and you’re grinning, bursting with pride. “Wonderful!” you say as you scoop her into a bear hug. “Mom! I made soup and sandwiches for dinner,” … Continue reading
When You Break Your Glass Comb and Your Child Loses His Candy
I must have been 5 or 6 years old. It was the summer holidays, and my maternal grandparents were visiting us. Their visit meant being regaled by fantastic stories, and spoiled with fancy meals, treats and unexpected gifts. One day, … Continue reading
Give Your Child the Gift of Distance
He was 13 when I first met him, a boy suffering from both shyness and acne. I tried to draw him out in conversation. He was polite, but not forthcoming. After we’d met a few times, he became friendly in … Continue reading
Why Your Child ‘Listens’ to You Sometimes
The complete title of this post is: Why Your Child Listens to You Sometimes and How to Ensure This Happens More Often. 🙂 I must clarify that the word ‘listen’ in the title has been used according to your definition … Continue reading
How Your Child Feels About You
Many years ago, I was talking to a friend about my daughter: “I can’t tell you how much I love her – she means so much to me…” (as if any other parent feels less about their child! The Romeo-Juliet … Continue reading
Dangerous Games You Might be Playing With Your Child
R-O-A-R! You growl, a ferocious frown on your face, your expression fierce, your fingers imitating claws, as you advance menacingly towards your child. She shrieks and runs away, and you give chase to capture her. Once you capture her, you … Continue reading